A private service for the sons and daughters of ageing parents.

    Give the worrying to someone who can do something with it.

    Jonathan takes one person at a time — somebody's ageing parent — and works on her, week after week, from wherever he is to wherever she is. You get his letter every week. She gets his full attention. Nobody is promised anything, and you can stop any month you like.

    Ask about your mother

    A few honest lines are all it takes. His own reply, fee included, inside a day. Nothing owed, nothing signed.

    Everything here says her. If yours is a father, read him — he will simply deny it all for longer.

    A mother telling a story with her hands raised while her grown daughter laughs.

    If you have ever typed her symptoms into a search bar at midnight, you already hold the job: the unpaid one. Keeper of the list of small changes nobody else takes seriously. You do it from another city or another country, in ten-minute telephone calls, and the rest of the family assumes it is handled — because you are handling it.

    Nobody is coming to take that job from you. Handing it over is what this page is for.

    Handing it over looks like this. One man takes her on — not a clinic, not an app, not a rota of strangers. He works on her mind and her body every week for as long as you keep him, and he does it from a distance. She never meets him, never rings him, never logs on to anything. Nothing is delivered to her house and nothing is prescribed. The whole thing is explained to her on one page, written specially for her.

    Her entire share of the work is one hour a week: lying down, eyes closed, resting.

    Yours: read his letters, and send back what only you would spot.

    One father, seventy-two: up eight times a night to go to the bathroom, every night. His wife was awake for all of it — she never had to guess the number.

    Today the count is one.

    He still lives at home, in his own routine, and nobody has mentioned him moving since.

    Read what his family says →

    Across years of clients in more than forty countries, Jonathan's own account is this: in mind and in mood, every single one of them improved. In the body, nearly all. He refuses to sell you that as a promise for her, because nobody honest could. It is simply what has happened, so far.

    I feel like myself again — the real me — after such a long time.

    A member, Singapore, in their own words, published with permission. One person's experience — not a prediction for anyone else.
    A man pruning a climbing rose in his garden, arms raised.

    The guessing stops first. Every session is logged the same day. His weekly letter comes from him and nobody else, on how the work is going. You send back a line — what you heard in the last call, what you saw on the last visit — and it is in his hands before her next session. For the first time, the noticing you do goes somewhere.

    For her — if she is anything like the others — it starts on the inside, and families tend to hear the difference in a call before they see it on a visit.

    It costs what his reply says it costs — named before you agree to anything, and never raised later. It is not cheap, and he does not pretend otherwise.

    It runs month to month. Leaving takes one sentence.

    Doctors, medicines, appointments: not his territory, never touched.

    If he does not believe he can help her, he refuses the money and says so.

    And none of it starts unless she agrees. She can stop the sessions herself, any day, without asking you first.

    You want to know how this could possibly work. Reasonable. The short version: he works on the body's energy field, remotely — and if that sentence just made you fold your arms, fine. Belief is not part of the arrangement, hers or yours.

    The families who stayed were never argued out of their doubt. They watched her instead, for a month or two.

    The longer version, if you want it →

    There has never been an advert. From the beginning, the only way in was to know a family already in — his name passed from one household to the next, across more than forty countries, the way trusted things travel: privately.

    This page is new. The way he works is not.

    If a letter feels like too big a step tonight, there is a smaller one: the list — twelve things families write off as personality that are often something else. No charge, one email, nothing follows it.

    Or write tonight. Tell him what has changed, what frightens you, and what you would give anything to see again. The frightening ones go to the top of his pile.

    They raised you. This is your opportunity to raise them.